Military Divorce

Military Divorce Attorney in Denver

A Decade of Personalized Legal Guidance for Military Families

Military families often face distinct pressures that can complicate divorce proceedings. Deployments, Permanent Change of Station orders, and frequent relocations can put additional strain on relationships, and these factors shape how military divorce cases unfold in Colorado. At VanLandingham Law, LLC, we take the time to understand how these elements have affected your family so we can offer genuine, empathetic support. Colorado requires at least one spouse to have lived in the state for 91 days before filing, and military assignments can add jurisdictional questions that benefit from early attention.

When you work with us, we explain how Colorado family law interacts with federal military rules so you know what to expect at each stage. We discuss how Denver District Court and surrounding Colorado jurisdictions handle temporary orders, parenting plans, and support matters, and we help you prepare thoroughly for hearings or mediation. We break complex rules into clear, manageable steps and identify the decisions ahead.

Contact us at (720) 727-6563 for a free consultation with our Denver military divorce attorney.




Military Benefits & Property in a Colorado Divorce

The division of military compensation is one of the more technically involved aspects of many military divorces. Military retired pay is not automatically divided when a marriage ends. A Colorado court must issue a final order awarding a portion of that pay as property before any division occurs. The Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act (USFSPA) provides the framework that allows state courts to divide qualifying military retired pay and permits federal enforcement of those orders through the Defense Finance and Accounting Service (DFAS).

Direct payment of retired pay through DFAS carries its own requirements. The often-referenced “10/10 rule” means that ten years of marriage must overlap with ten years of creditable military service for DFAS to make direct payments to a former spouse. That threshold affects the payment mechanism only. It doesn’t determine whether a court can award the benefit, how much a former spouse receives, or whether the benefit is considered marital property. Military pay, allowances, disability compensation, and post-service income can each raise different questions when calculating support or valuing marital resources, and we help clients work through those distinctions carefully.

We also understand that many military families own homes, vehicles, and other property in different states or countries due to frequent moves. We help you think through the practical and legal implications of where to file, how to value property located outside Colorado, and how to coordinate case timing around upcoming deployments or relocations.

Personalized Guidance Backed by a Decade of Legal Experience

Access to legal guidance can be challenging when one spouse is stationed out of state or overseas. We use secure communication tools, flexible scheduling, and clear written updates to help you stay informed and engaged, even when separated by distance or time zones. Whether your case is filed in a Denver-area court or another Colorado jurisdiction, we provide updates and communication support throughout the process.

Reasons clients choose our firm:

  • Diverse Legal Experience: Attorney Joe VanLandingham combines his background in business law and civil litigation to bring a practical perspective to family law cases.
  • Personalized Representation: We take the time to understand your story and tailor our representation to your needs and goals.
  • A Decade of Experience: Ten years of legal experience inform our work on complex family law cases.

How We Handle the Military Divorce Process

Our process begins with a consultation to understand your specific situation. Denver District Court handles domestic-relations cases, including dissolution of marriage and allocation of parental responsibilities. We guide clients through each phase, whether their case is filed there or in another Colorado jurisdiction.

We guide you through the key steps of a military divorce so you know what to expect at each stage:

  • Filing proceedings: We help you evaluate Colorado’s residency requirements, jurisdiction questions, and timing considerations before you file.
  • Division of assets: We address military retired pay, property across multiple states, and the distinction between court-awarded benefits and direct DFAS enforcement.
  • Child custody and support: We help develop parenting plans that address deployment, relocation, communication, transportation, and changes in parenting time under Colorado law.

The Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) can permit a qualifying servicemember to request a stay of at least 90 days when military duties materially affect the ability to appear in a civil proceeding, including certain custody cases. A stay isn’t automatic and depends on the statutory requirements and the servicemember’s specific circumstances. Our team manages communications and documentation connected to the legal process, coordinating carefully so you can focus on your family while we handle the procedural details.

Planning for Life After a Military Divorce

We help you look beyond the immediate decisions about custody, support, and property to understand how your divorce decree may affect your long-term finances, housing options, co-parenting routines, future support obligations, and benefit administration.

Many military families must consider how changes in income, benefits, and living arrangements will affect their budgets and day-to-day lives. We discuss how support orders, allocation of debts, and possible moves may influence your ability to maintain housing, access schools, and remain connected to your support network. When appropriate, we encourage clients to coordinate with financial professionals or counselors so they can build a realistic plan that aligns with the terms of their Colorado court orders and the practical realities of their military or post-military careers.

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    - Jim N.
  • “Very prompt, excellent communication skills, and did not sugar coat anything for my benefit which allowed me to see all sides and aspects of what may be to come.”

    - Joseph A.
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Frequently Asked Questions

Military divorce can involve Colorado family law, federal protections, military compensation, and parenting questions related to deployment or relocation. These answers address common questions military members and spouses may have when considering a divorce in Denver or elsewhere in Colorado.

How Does a Military Divorce Differ from a Civilian Divorce?

Military divorce can bring federal rules and service-related circumstances into a Colorado family-law case. Deployment, relocation, military compensation, and jurisdiction may require additional consideration. We help clients understand which issues apply to their circumstances.

What Is the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act, & When Can It Affect a Divorce Proceeding?

The SCRA can affect a divorce proceeding when military duties materially affect a servicemember’s ability to participate. A qualifying servicemember may request a stay, but a stay isn’t automatic. The requirements depend on the circumstances of the case.

How Can Deployment or PCS Orders Affect a Colorado Parenting Plan?

Deployment or PCS orders can affect the practical terms of a Colorado parenting plan. Families may need to address communication, transportation, relocation, and changes in parenting time.

Can Military Retired Pay Be Divided in a Divorce?

Military retired pay can be divided only if a court order awards a portion as property. Direct payment through DFAS requires a qualifying order and additional application materials.

What Does the 10/10 Rule Affect, & What Does It Not Determine?

The 10/10 rule concerns direct payment through DFAS. It doesn’t determine whether retired pay will be awarded or how much a former spouse receives.

What Should I Consider When Choosing a Denver Military Divorce Lawyer?

Consider whether an attorney can address the family-law issues that affect your situation. Clear communication can be particularly important when distance or deployment affects participation. At VanLandingham Law, LLC, Attorney Joe VanLandingham’s background in business law and civil litigation supports a thorough, practical approach to each client’s situation.

Discuss Your Military Divorce with Our Denver Team

Military divorce can involve Colorado family law, federal protections, parenting plans, and complex financial questions. We provide personalized representation, explain the rules that apply to your circumstances, and prepare you for mediation or court proceedings.

Contact us today at (720) 727-6563 for a free consultation with our Denver military divorce attorneys. 

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